Okaasan Itadakimasu ~repack~

Wait until everyone is seated and the meal is served.

Consider the Japanese mother’s role. She rises before the family, often in the dim light of early morning, to prepare a breakfast of rice, fish, pickles, and soup. She packs a kawaii (cute) bento with such artistry that the child feels ashamed to eat it—it is too beautiful. She plans dinners around seasonal vegetables, the child’s growth spurts, and the father’s late return from work. To eat her food is to eat her time, her attention, her worry, and her hope. okaasan itadakimasu

The teenage years. The child is embarrassed by their parents. They grunt, "Itadakimasu," dropping the Okaasan to save face. This absence is deafening. The mother notices. It is the first hint of separation. Wait until everyone is seated and the meal is served