| Aspect | LGBQ (cisgender) Experience | Transgender Experience | | :--- | :--- | :--- | | | Attraction (who you love) | Identity (who you are) | | Visibility | Often closeted; can "pass" as straight | Often visibly gender nonconforming; difficult to "pass" | | Healthcare | Mental health support, HIV prevention | Hormones, surgeries, voice therapy, mental health | | Body Relationship | Generally accepting of their sexed body | Often experiences gender dysphoria; may seek medical transition | | Legal Fights | Marriage, adoption, military service | ID documents, bathroom access, sports participation, puberty blockers |
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